Giving: authentic or hypocritical?

Posted Jan 12, 2021

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Daily Scripture

Matthew 6:1-4

1 Be careful that you don’t practice your religion in front of people to draw their attention. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven.

2 “Whenever you give to the poor, don’t blow your trumpet as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets so that they may get praise from people. I assure you, that’s the only reward they’ll get. 3 But when you give to the poor, don’t let your left hand know what your right hand is doing 4 so that you may give to the poor in secret. Your Father who sees what you do in secret will reward you.

Reflection Questions

A major portion of Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount dealt with hypocrisy, as real in his day as it is in ours. He pointed to certain activities as examples of how hypocrisy can spoil our service to God, even in actions that may be good in themselves. In today’s reading, Jesus pointed out that giving can express generosity and gratitude, or it can be a something we do solely for the selfish purpose of making us look better to other people.

  • Pastor John Ortberg wrote about the challenge many of us face with what he called “approval addiction.”* It applies to all the actions Jesus talked about. Today, ask yourself: how important is it to you that others know about your giving, of money, time or service? That might be good, of course—you might influence others to be more generous. Or you might mainly want others to think well of you. What purpose does making your giving known serve in your life?
  • Pastor Ortberg also suggested a way to correct the condition called “impression management:” “Every once in a while, do something good and try to make sure no one finds out about it.”** Have you ever done something generous and worked to ensure that only you and God (not even the recipient) knew who did the giving? If not, try it soon. Keep a journal about the spiritual impact you experience from following Jesus' recommendation to give “in secret.”


Lord Jesus, teach me how to do my giving, not for my ego’s sake, but for the sake of those who need what I can give. Let your self-giving generosity shape my life. Amen.

* John Ortberg, The Life You’ve Always Wanted. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 2002, p. 158ff.

** Ibid., p. 168.

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Brandon Gregory

Brandon Gregory

Brandon Gregory is a volunteer for the worship and missions teams at Church of the Resurrection. He helps lead worship at Leawood's modern worship services, as well as at the West and Downtown services, and is involved with the Malawi missions team at home.

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